Men are confused about the “flakiness” of women. We were charming and kind and nice, were we not? Why did it start so strong with her and then attenuate into nothingness?
Here is how it usually goes. A guy meets a girl who likes him and she agrees to go on a date with him. So he meets her somewhere typical, say at a nice wine bar for a glass of wine. Date number one. And the whole time, he is trying be interesting and charming… he is telling stories and telling jokes, and it is working reasonably well. Remember, she likes him… she came on a date with him. So she likes the date and it was fun.
He is kind and charming, the epitome of chivalry. He opens the door for her, etc. And at the end of the date, he is not sure what else he is supposed to do, so they thank each other for the great evening, and he asks her if she would like to get together again. And remember, she likes him, so she says yes. Date number two.




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