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PUA limitations and the Yogisan guru

Posted by on November 10, 2011 1 comment

PUA YogisanI think in the long run we all at some point realise that PUA routines and gimmicks, have limitations. That is why we are on this forum always trying to improve and learn more and become better. I am happy if everybody reads the game and watches the movie, as this will ensure that we all must and have to become better, Pushing the standards even higher.

If by using PUA we make the woman get attracted to us, then by becoming better REAL MEN, having fun and living interesting lives, develop supreme social skills and social confidence, then the women will want to join us, even before we use any lines on them. A story is told of YOGISAN, the pua natural, who could even make a woman orgasm by just winking at her or giving her a hug. Now that is legendary. All he did was walk into a room and women would buckle (weak knees). No lines, no routines, to number-closes, just introduced each other and extract to a different location for the deed. MYSTERY, STYLE, HYPOTNICA, etc have all evolved to the point where they are good because of their lifestyle and aura around them, that they don’t need to use routines any more, Get to a venue, -say hi to a few people – have fun with the people you came with, and the women will choose them. At which point they don’t think number close, or kiss close, they think where can i take this girl right now and close the deal.

They have Transformed themselves into Genuine, Confident, Successful Man that Quality Woman CRAVES for. That craving makes her act on her instincts and responds to them, by getting laid. if you have been craving for something for so long and its hard to come by. you even think it will never comedy, and one day you see it, (think you have seen it), you may tell yourself what the heck, I gotta have this.

Women respond to that emotion. In one of my rare success, I was in bed with this girl (2hours after we met in a shop), and she told me i made her feel something and at that point she didn’t care she had a boyfriend, she just wanted to go with it, to finally feel it, have it. to be taken and be done to this things she has always craved.

  • even in our midst on this FORUM we have GURUs, who don’t have to go sarging, they get women in their normal social places, they have developed a systems and lifestyle where or which involves meeting beautiful women daily, and the system susses / sieves the women. in a nutshell the women come to them.

Also my view is that every PUA has different goals in PUA. others want quick lays, others want long term good quality lays, but you must choose what you want. and be congruent with it deep inside (inner game).

  • One day if i stop being lazy, and overcome my approach anxiety, stop worrying about movies and what other people think about movies and me, stop being an internet PUA and stop being a Television PUA, stop being a articles / book PUA and get out there in the field, and lead women on that path …. i will one day become the YOGISAN GURU that i want to be.
  • The only problem is that just like a ladder, you never will get to the top easily, you gotta start from the bottom. start sarging, start improving your lifestyle, start being social, try out routines, forget approach anxiety and just approach, CRASH and BURN. work on your inner game, before you know it .. you will be in the middle of the ladder.

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The Psychology of a Player interview

Posted by on July 6, 2008 6 comments

The Pickup Artist - The New and Improved Art of Seduction by Mystery aka Erik von MarkovikThis is an interview for launch edition of Destiny, a new women’s business magazine published by Khanyi Dhlomo. So many of these women’s magazines ask the same boring questions about dating or relationships, so this was a real treat to explore. It’s also the most popular article on this blog.

1. Why do some men decide to become players?

Most players don’t decide to become players. They just find they are naturally good with women i.e. they understand how to make a women feel good and this naturally creates attraction. Players make up a small, very small fraction of men. Those who are motivated to become pickup artists (or players) do so out of frustration and lack of success with women growing up. For example, Mystery, the most revered pick-up artist in the world was a nerd, introverted and into computers growing up. He transformed himself by becoming a stage magician and using this to launch his career as a professional pick-up artist. He is the mentor of Neil Strauss, author of The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artist (2005).

2. What do they gain from it?

The most important thing a man gains from becoming a player is confidence with women. They begin to understand the process of how to create attraction, how to get women into bed, how to make women come back for more. They learn what most guys only hope to achieve which is that men can also have sexual selection because most men believe women are the choosers. More specifically they learn a set of internal beliefs, attitudes and a mindset which women find irresistible.

3. What drives a good man to become a Casanova?

Again in most cases it’s a severe lack of success with women which drives them to seek out the knowledge, know-how and role models who can teach them how to turn things around. Casanova made most of the women he had sex with very happy because he was able to focus in on their inner most desires and allow them to live out a idealistic fantasy. By comparison the average male is plain and boring.

4. Does culture have anything to do with it?

No because players or Casanova’s can be found in all countries, all cultures and throughout the ages. Matt Ridley in his ground breaking book, The Red Queen: Sex and the Evolution of Human Nature, explains how intelligence has been one of the outcomes through sexual selection, which is a separate and concurrent development alongside evolution. What I mean is this, males develop a high intelligence, to outwit the competition. The females benefited with each generation of reproduction and the transfer of genes.

5. How do you spot a Casanova?

The best players are also guys’ guys because they can get along with anyone. They have superb social skills and assert their alpha status over a social group becoming the de facto leader. The easiest way to spot a Casanova is to observe how a guy interacts with both women and men. He cannot be confident with women if he is not able to lead the men. In one sense he is more like Don Juan (seducer) who will be quiet, even reserved because he does not intentionally raise any alarm bells. He is prefers to observe the surroundings and group interaction so he can choose the best possible moments to make his move on the particular woman he prefers. Another type of player is more of “the Mayor” where he is friendly and talkative to everyone.

6. Can you change him to become monogamous in a relationship?

Yes because serial monogamy is a myth. It simply means the man has not met a woman who has more to offer than himself. So for example find a man like Matthew McConaughey, considered a player, settling down with Brazilian model Camila Alves. You will also notice how many playboy types go through multiple marriages because they are trying to find the best match based on their own subjective criteria. And I’ll guarantee you part of that includes a woman who’s a challenge with very high
self-esteem (because they have high self-esteem).

7. Do you have any examples that come to mind?

QUESTION: So who is the biggest player you’ve ever met?

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Mystery interview on Conan O’Brien

Posted by on May 20, 2007 1 comment

Mystery aka Erik Von Markovik, is a pioneer of the seduction community, and a main character in the non-fiction book The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists, by Neil Strauss. Mystery has been a prolific contributor to the online forums and published several books mostly in ebook format. After the release of Neil Strauss’ book he has entered into more of a mainstream persona. So I found this short interview on the Conan O’Brien show. Mystery is not able to get into any specifics but demonstrates one of his chief strategies; that of peacocking. Peacocking is when you – the man – wears something unusual that draws a women’s attention and allows her to come up to you and comment on it. I for example have a very unusual ring that a friend bought when the Dalai Lama came to South Africa a few years ago. It has a whole story that goes with it because of the Buddhist mantra written in Sanskrit. For more on Mystery please take a moment to visit his Mystery Method website and review his book, audio and DVD products.


Mystery On Conan O’Brien
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