I can give you some ‘ground rules’ on openers that I have learn over the years.

1. The easiest way to open any person is to first establish eye contact and a genuine smile. The door is then open. Don’t take to long then.
2. NEVER EVER interrupt a conversation. Chipping in will lose points very quickly.
3. If its a large group of women, your chances are slim getting an opener so refer to point 1
4. Be original. But my rule here is you have observed certain things about the girl/s so use that to open.
5. LOOK relaxed even though you are not.
6. Try smiling guys, this is fun
7. Give girls their space. Look like you are passing by by turning your body in the direction you are going and when she turns to you, then you can turn towards her.
8. NEVER ASSUME that she is available. Often girls have boyfriends an want a good time out. So don’t feel bad if you don’t get her number.
9. Remember girls play games. Play with.
10. Make them laugh with real humour! Take them to stand-up comedy shows if you struggle with humour.

We meet women every day at work, in public places. Just be natural, talk to as many as possible. Make comments that make people smile when you are in a lift or standing at the till. Make clean jokes in public. Here’s some more tips about openers.

1. Women are always tense except when they are drunk ( sometimes they are tense too ) Keep this in mind.
2. If you are so glued onto one kind of opener you might fall into a rut and only open some kinds of girls.
3. Never compliment a girl directly the first time. Say things that make her women what you are thinking. Don’t say you have a beautiful dress on, rather say, its an interesting outfit you have. I find that a guy needs to keep his mystery. A hunter needs to keep himself hidden in order to get close to his DEER (dear)

Here’s a short and quick break-down of the core mistake that guys make when approaching women: they hover…

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