This was posted on a discussion forum I moderate by a friend. And it makes a very good point when it comes to the initial approach or openers with attractive women in a bar or club. Hollywood films like Crazy, Stupid, Love give the impression that this is an effective opener with a woman you don’t know from a bar of soap. Anyway decide for yourself if you will continue to buy women drinks before you get to know them.

I posted this in a Facebook discussion titled “dear desperate girls” aimed at getting desperate girls to stop putting up FB pics of their boobs… I didn’t care about the discussion but for anyone even newer to this than me this may be useful.

Dear desperate guys!

Please stop buying girls drinks (unless they’re your mates, or they bought the first round). For one your treating them like hookers.. So you bought three cocktails and now she’s gonna take you into a dark corner and make your dreams come true??

She ain’t that thick or that easy. You are. For two its patronising to assume she’s short of cash. For three every other yob that can’t string a sentence
together has been doing the same thing 10 times a night since she turned 18. Fourth you’re often buying drinks for me And lastly because you can tell a lot about a woman who’ll buy U a drink when she’s just met you at the bar.

Self-sufficient and not a leach, a freethinker… work the rest out yourselves. So turn it around and stop behaving like a bunch of wussys, you’ll have much more fun, stop wasting money, and meet much more interesting women that r way more worthy of your time.

The original post was by a model friend of mine, she is 25 and spens half the year in Milan. I’m 38 and the way we met? She bought me a drink at the bar

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