Question: Does anyone know how to detect shit-tests? Sometimes sets respond by saying they’ve got boyfriends just to see ur reaction. Why do they do this and how should 1 respond to these ‘tests’?
From a former dating coach, Garshwin
Shit tests also known as biological tests to make sure women mate with the right guy (or at least the guy that’s right for the moment) is a good thing.
Have u ever attracted a woman and she didn’t test you?
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How did you feel?
Did you feel you’ve truly WON her over? Did you feel that bonded? Like you really deserve the prize after the battle?
Well, just as women need to test us men to secure themselves we need them to test us to enjoy the battle, the banter…
We want to feel MASCULINE.
And the tests amplify that.
Lol, but there’s always the give and take, the plus and minus, the ying and yang, odds and ends, the more or less, etc. In other words, if they test too to a point where you’re gut is telling you that she’s really pissing you off now then you’re probably right. On the contrary, if she doesn’t test you every now and then (even if you’re married) then you’ll also lose some attraction. She needs to keep on testing and you need to keep on passing in order to keep attraction chronicles going.
If you’re not keeping this up not you’re also going to find yourself in the divorce rate category in the long run. So be aware of this as
early as you can and start to master the passing of a woman’s tests. They’re always be there since it’s part of her make-u and it’s all
good. You just need to accept that.
Get this…
To a disciple who was forever complaining about others the Master said, “If it is peace you want, seek to change yourself, not other people. It is easier to protect your feet with slippers than to carpet the whole of the earth.” – Anthony De Mello
Deep.
If you master the SURFACE stuff you’ll continue to go into a cul de sac to quickly get out of situations and try to impress people. Master the DEEP stuff and you’ll be able to see the matrix of almost any situation that gets thrown at you. If you do take on the task of mastering the deeper stuff you’ll notice that not only are u passing naturally but also in the right context and politically correct.
With regards to your specific question – Sometimes sets respond by saying they’ve got boyfriends just to see your reaction – there’s lot of variables involved. It could be true that she has a bf and she’s being polite or she could test you. When does she test you – immediately or after a while is also important to know. Was she with her friends or alone? Was it your approach or is she just like that on a normal day? Was there warmth (playful banter) in her comment or was it dead pan negative energy? Do u want to be with such a woman in future taken from your character assessment of her? Is she worth your time?
So it depends on context really and mastering the core psychology of women and how successful men do it will enable you to know how to past her test and if it was a test, etc.
I hope I have shed some light on the matter.
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