Monthly Archives: May 2011

Television for the non-pussified Man

Posted by on May 26, 2011 No comments

For me television is designed to drive consumer behaviour. You may even say the shows are designed to supplement the constant barrage of advertising. Women and mothers are the primary target for this media brain washing. Remember the long infomercials in the mornings after 8am. Anyway there is clearly a shortage of of television programming for men – I mean besides the constant barrage of sports shows.

Here’s my comments on shows aimed at men from a top 10 list.

1. HOW I MET YOUR MOTHER – The guys in this show are not alpha males. Jason Segel as Marshall Eriksen always comes across as wimp in every
movie he has been in from Forgetting Sarah Marshall to Gullivers’ Travels. The supposed player in the show Neil Patrick Harris as Barney
Stinson is gay in real life. So this is complete rubbish.
2. WEEDS – this is almost there with bigger focus sex. I found the characters to some extent superficial and lacking depth. Nancy’s first husband, the DEA agent allows her to walk all over him. Nancy’s brother in law reminds of Tao of Steve’s attitude. He has big success with women but I could not figure out how, except for a strong level of disinterest in conforming; hence woman see him as a bad boy or something along the lines of a non-conformist. The drug lord that she marries later on shows some initial alpha male attitude and later starts to give her more and more status, thus lowering his own status and control of the relationship.

3. THE OFFICE (AMERICAN) – this is one funny show and Michael Scott is the worst and best boss anyone could have. However, he is also the worst example of being a complete wussy. Jim’s character has interesting qualities in his attitude towards breaking the rules, fun and humour, pranks and being relentless in pursuit of Pam. Not fully of lessons for alpha males, however full of cocky funny tips.

4. NIP/TUCK – a series that’s on my list of downloaded-series to watch because it has a strong sexual focus, and also pokes fun at the Hollywood ideal with plastic surgery. The two male leads are different yet exhibit very strong alpha male status. There seems to be a bro’s before ho’s attitude between them, which is a approach all guys on this forum should adopt. Highly recommended in the direct nature of the sexual liaisons – the ultimate social proof of being the Doctor i.e. giving them the authority (read power) over the (helpless) female clients.

5. TWO AND A HALF MEN – this is probably the best balances show between what to do, Charlie, and what never to do, his brother. The kid is almost irrelevant in the equation. He is even fat when he is grown up and nothing of value can be learned from him. Charlie is the main focus because he doesn’t care, he just moves on, and sees women as objects especially in the earlier seasons. The principles that makes him uber successful is the two rules from David X (1. Who cares what she thinks; 2. The most important person in the relation is YOU!).

6. CALIFORNICATION – Duchovny is a total bad boy. He keeps breaking the rules. He does not care what society thinks about him. Yet he is deeply passionate when is with a woman like she’s the only one in the world. How he balances the many sexual escapades with a deep loving and caring relationship with his wife is amazing and I’ve not complete figured out how he does that – maybe it’s the sex that keeps her coming back. A worthy male role model if ever there was one on pussified television.

7. ENTOURAGE – this is one I enjoyed from season 1-7. The only thing is the main characters gets most of his pussy because he is a pretty boy AND he is a famous actor. So the question remains can he get the same hot pussy if he WAS NOT a hot actor in Hollywood? Maybe, because it’s clear from his friendship with his manager, he was a big hit with girls in school. So I ask you was Colin Farrel, Jude Law or Brad Pitt alpha males or super successful with hot women before they made it big? I wonder.

I have not watched  Rescue Me, It’s Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Sons of Anarchy.

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How to detect and deal with shit tests from Women

Posted by on May 18, 2011 1 comment

Question: Does anyone know how to detect shit-tests? Sometimes sets respond by saying they’ve got boyfriends just to see ur reaction. Why do they do this and how should 1 respond to these ‘tests’?

From a former dating coach, Garshwin

Shit tests also known as biological tests to make sure women mate with the right guy (or at least the guy that’s right for the moment) is a good thing.

Have u ever attracted a woman and she didn’t test you?

…

How did you feel?

Did you feel you’ve truly WON her over? Did you feel that bonded? Like you really deserve the prize after the battle?

Well, just as women need to test us men to secure themselves we need them to test us to enjoy the battle, the banter…

We want to feel MASCULINE.

And the tests amplify that.

Lol, but there’s always the give and take, the plus and minus, the ying and yang, odds and ends, the more or less, etc. In other words, if they test too to a point where you’re gut is telling you that she’s really pissing you off now then you’re probably right. On the contrary, if she doesn’t test you every now and then (even if you’re married) then you’ll also lose some attraction. She needs to keep on testing and you need to keep on passing in order to keep attraction chronicles going.

If you’re not keeping this up not you’re also going to find yourself in the divorce rate category in the long run. So be aware of this as
early as you can and start to master the passing of a woman’s tests. They’re always be there since it’s part of her make-u and it’s all
good. You just need to accept that.

Get this…

To a disciple who was forever complaining about others the Master said, “If it is peace you want, seek to change yourself, not other people. It is easier to protect your feet with slippers than to carpet the whole of the earth.” – Anthony De Mello

Deep.

If you master the SURFACE stuff you’ll continue to go into a cul de sac to quickly get out of situations and try to impress people. Master the DEEP stuff and you’ll be able to see the matrix of almost any situation that gets thrown at you. If you do take on the task of mastering the deeper stuff you’ll notice that not only are u passing naturally but also in the right context and politically correct.

With regards to your specific question – Sometimes sets respond by saying they’ve got boyfriends just to see your reaction – there’s lot of variables involved. It could be true that she has a bf and she’s being polite or she could test you. When does she test you – immediately or after a while is also important to know. Was she with her friends or alone? Was it your approach or is she just like that on a normal day? Was there warmth (playful banter) in her comment or was it dead pan negative energy? Do u want to be with such a woman in future taken from your character assessment of her? Is she worth your time?

So it depends on context really and mastering the core psychology of women and how successful men do it will enable you to know how to past her test and if it was a test, etc.

I hope I have shed some light on the matter.

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Cameron Diaz On Marriage

Posted by on May 17, 2011 No comments

Cameron Diaz, actress with boyfriend Alex RodriguezBad Teacher,’ actress Cameron Diaz, 38, blasts marriage as a “dying institution” and claims that when it comes to relationships, “old traditions don’t suit our world any long.”

We assume that means Cam won’t be walking down the aisle with her beau Alex Rodriguez any time soon, but we can’t help but wondering whether the lady doth protest too much. Cameron seems to know just how to play the game when it comes to men (she gives a detailed recipe for seduction in her Maxim interview that involves doing something you only did in junior high at least once a day).

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Question – To Drink Alcohol or Not When Out Meeting Women

Posted by on May 16, 2011 No comments

virgin mojito cocktail non-alcoholic drinkQuestion from a Male reader received 15 May 2011

I never used to drink, so pardon me if this appears to a dumb query. I am very much clueless when it comes to alcohol, I have no idea what is the difference between one bottle and another.

It seems to me that when at a venue that serves alcohol, it is necessary to drink something or other.  Otherwise I come across like the only reason I came to the venue is to pick up chicks (which is the truth, but I can’t make my game so obvious).

So I want to start hitting bars, but I honestly don’t know what’s a good drink to order.

I have a low alcohol tolerance.  I’ve been drinking the free wine that is dished out in copious amounts at art gallery exhibition openings, and I’ve noticed that anything more than one glass impairs my driving in a scary way, even if I sip slowly and eat something.

So what I’m asking for is a recommendation : what light alcoholic drink can I order at a typical bar, which I can hold in my hand (helps for my fidgeting) and gently and slowly sip over the course of a night (not necessarily finishing), after which I can still make it home, and most importantly, that gives the two cute chicks chatting in the corner the impression that I just came into the bar to grab a drink and not to pull a group approach on them?

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