Monthly Archives: January 2011

Classic text messages you can send to women

Posted by on January 19, 2011 No comments

A friend of mine posted this to a discussion group that I moderate:

I am a big fan of BradP (actually, I think he is the best PUA out there). Anyways, I got an email from him regarding classic text messages you can  send immediately. He suggests not sending stupid (How are you?) text  messages.

So, here are the good ones to send. Have fun and tell me if any of these work (I will also test them and report back to this group).

  • I just won 1.2M in the lottery. So….Im just texting to say goodbye.
  • What are you doing tonight? just you and your hand right?
  • I’m running for vice president in 2014. Can I count on your support?
  • You look like the girl who pulled the other girls’ pigtails in 4th grade.
  • Maybe it’s the booze talking but I wanted you to know…. I love booze
  • im going to see santa what should i tell him to bring you
  • OMG, I just saw this squirrel in the park and it reminded me of you.
  • Do you have picture texting?
  • If I was a schoolbus, would you ride in the front of the back?
  • Are you a cat person or a dog person? Or just a puppy kicker?
  • If I were going to jail for 20yrs, would you tattoo my name on your boob?
  • I was walking my dog, and he got off the leash, and he totally shagged this other dog. I’m so excited to be a grandpa!
  • I’ve decided that I think you’re metrosexual, even tho you’re a girl.
  • I think you are cute and sexy. I want to show you my coin collection.

Some of them are more applicable to people in North America, but in general, they can be changed for the South African perspective if needs be.

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The Morality of Boyfriend destroyers

Posted by on January 18, 2011 2 comments

Boyfriend Destroyer Couples Relationship problemsa question from a reader:

If you want to mature as a man, and want to come from an abundance perspective, is “Boyfriend Destroyers” really something you want to be doing? Would it not be better (Karma-wise), to befriend her, show her that your awesome, and let her make the decision to leave her bf or not?

My response…

Yes, you are on the right path. Some seduction gurus have taught amazing ways to get girls who are in relationships. And others like one of my original favourites like Stephane Hemon from Canada, always reminded me of the karma aspect. Karma is simply getting back what you put out in the universe.

So if you are going to break-up some other guy’s relationship to get his hot girlfriend, just remember the same thing will eventually happen to you. There’s enough pussy in this world to keep everyone satisfied for a very long time.

Besides you are adding another layer of complexity to game if you go this route. Most relationships today are very surface level. What I mean is that they are not deep passionate love affairs. So when you meet a hot girl who’s got a boyfriend bring her into your social circle so you can start meeting her friends.

There’s no better testimonial or social proof than a hot girl introducing her to her hot friends.

What do you, the reader, think is the morality of seducing attracting women in relationships or married?

Universal Laws That Govern Relationships

Posted by on January 14, 2011 No comments

Tuming Lee Relationship Coach PretoriaRelationships just like life do not occur in a vacuum, the laws of nature cannot affect them. The same way, the law of gravity would cause an object to drop from a dizzy height; a similar force can cause this gravity effect to happen in any relationship at any stage if not identified early and managed properly. It is imperative for you to learn that nothing happens in isolation and this one truth you must know in order to break bad relationship habits and to stop history from repeating itself. In this article I will be discussing five laws of nature that guide the direction in which your relationship will go and will also be imparting ways in which you can manage these laws thereby effectively managing the fate of your relationships.

1. Law of Fear

Everybody knows this law and keeps referring to it but very few people know its properties and manifestation forms. Florence Scovel-Shin, the author of “The game of life and how to play it”, defines fear as inverted faith or faith turned upside down. I love this definition of fear because it clearly spells out that when you are being fearful in a relationship, it means you are being faithless. Isn’t it awkward, that the majority of people who are faithless expect their relationship to make a turn for the better, unaware of this universal contradiction which is the root cause of all strain in the relationship?
The law of attraction says that what you fear, you attract so guard your actions in a relationship and start labelling them as either fearful or faithful. If they are fearful, loose them and learn innovative ways to express negative emotions in a positive way. Your emotions may be justified by your fear is not.

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Story of Bluebeard

Posted by on January 9, 2011 No comments

Blue BeardThis was originally told by Dr Paul Dobransky in his interview with David DeAngelo for his monthly Double Your Dating interview series…

Bluebeard was a wealthy aristocrat, feared because of his “frightfully ugly” blue beard. He had been married three times, but no one knew what had become of his wives. He was therefore avoided by the local girls. When Bluebeard visited one of his neighbours and asked to marry one of her daughters, they were terrified, and each tried to pass him on to the other. Eventually he persuaded the younger daughter to marry him, and after the ceremony she went to live with him in his château. Very shortly after, however, Bluebeard announced that he had to leave the country for a while; he gave over all the keys of the chateau to his new wife, including the key to one small room that she was forbidden to enter. He then went away and left the house in her hands. Almost immediately she was overcome with the desire to see what the forbidden room held, and finally her visiting sister convinced her to satisfy her curiosity and open the room. However, the wife immediately discovered the room’s horrible secret: Its floor reeked of blood, and the dead bodies of her husband’s former wives hung on the walls. Horrified, she locked the door, but blood had come onto the key which would not wash off. Bluebeard returned unexpectedly and immediately knew what his wife had done. In a blind rage he threatened to behead her on the spot, and so she locked herself in the highest tower with her sister. While Bluebeard, sword in hand, tried to break down the door, the sisters waited for their two brothers to arrive. At the last moment, as Bluebeard was about to deliver the fatal blow, the brothers broke into the castle, and as he attempted to flee, they killed him. He left no heirs but his wife, who inherited all his great fortune. She used part of it for a dowry to marry her sister to the one that loved her, another part for her brothers’ captains commissions, and the rest to marry a worthy gentleman who made her forget her ill treatment by Bluebeard.

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Meet David X – DVD promo clip

Posted by on January 8, 2011 No comments


David X is one the towering figures in the seduction community worldwide. Forget all that PUA nonsense, David X teaches you to be a MAN not PUA! He’s a great role model for how to be a man and how to get all the women you want.

Meet David X – here you will be able to buy a DVD with David’s seminar, recorded in Warsaw, Poland on 25-26th April, 2010. This is his best seminar yet, containing material never presented before.

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My Kiss Close

Posted by on January 7, 2011 No comments

This is from a friend and mentor who goes by the alias Johnny Alpha…

I developed a kiss close one day during a moment of insight that has had an 80% or better success rate for me and those guys I’ve shared it with. Typically, I can use it within 25 minutes of meeting a woman that I’ve initiated a conversation and spent time with.

Once I get that “nervous” feeling (a friend of mine feels it as going legless, like his legs are numb or missing), which for me is like having a 5th grade crush that’s making me feel all rubbery and like I’m floating inside – I know I have a ‘go’ or ‘escalate’ signal that I’m responding to.

I will pause, lean back, and say “Can I… ask you a question?”

This creates compliance and curiosity, as she will agree that you can – so it is her idea. She is also curious. She’ll say something along the lines of “What do you want to ask?”

At that point I pause again, and kinda change my mind and say something about, “Naaah, you might see it as inappropriate”, or “You might… not like it…”

I’ll beat around the bush for minute or two, making her intensely curious, till she’s very eager to know and then I’ll pause again, look her in the eye and lean over to kiss her. I usually slowly reach over and bring her closer as I lean in, the kino and certainty in my response reinforces the action.

I will kiss her well, then lean back, kinda half smile and say something like “I hate to repeat myself, but should I ask you again?” and repeat. Else I stop and say “I guess that was the right answer…”, then I go on chatting until the tension builds again.

I have rarely had a “NO”, and no outright “NOs”. If it bombs I casually go on talking, keep up the conversation and try again later, or next time – and usually succeed.

My first ten or so attempts with this were successful. Try it. I have had excellent feedback from other guys.

Johnny_Alpha
ldejongh@hotmail.com

Dating Mistakes Women Make

Posted by on January 4, 2011 No comments

Melinda Maximova, VIP matchmaker with Perfect Search, discusses dating mistakes on ChristinaMarie.tv and how she found love.

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