Monthly Archives: March 2005

Do It! Take Action!

Posted by on March 11, 2005 No comments

by Mehmet Aksoy from www.girldatingtips.com

Chances are women won’t arbitrarily flirt with you on the street. They won’t offer their bodies to you. They won’t approach you and ask for your number. You have to initiate meeting women.

Once you meet a woman, she will decide if she wants to further the relationship. If you exchange numbers, you still must initiate. Call her. Don’t wait for her to call you. You have to get out there and actively pursue women. Meet and date as many women as you can. Even if you decide not to date the women you meet, you will gain valuable experience just by taking the initiative to approach them.

Taking ACTION is the key to success with women. The ability to approach women comes with confidence and also with lots of practice. The better you feel about yourself, the more women will respond to you. Your behaviour can be a direct suggestion of your level of confidence. You may need to build up your self-esteem in order to feel confident communicating with women. A man with high self-esteem will confidently walk right up to the most beautiful woman in the room and start talking to her. However, a man who is not sure of himself will be unsuccessful in achieving his goal of meeting and seducing the woman of his dreams.

Which guy do you want to be? If you don’t feel good about yourself or you know of areas you could improve, take a trip to the nearest library or bookstore. Pick up a couple of books on how to improve your self-image. You should recognize and try to improve your weaknesses thereby lowering the possibility of rejection.

No web sex please, we’re British

Posted by on March 7, 2005 No comments

UK men make some of the world’s most faithful partners, with only one per cent visiting dating websites in search of extramarital liaisons, research has claimed.

According to a newly published global study by dating site CupidBay.com, married men living in India proved to be the most unfaithful, where an astonishing 49 per cent actively seek sexual relationships on the web.

Second place in the love rat stakes was Pakistan, with seven per cent of husbands using the internet to seek extramarital sex. This was followed by men from Egypt and Saudi Arabia, at six per cent and five per cent respectively.

In contrast American men proved to be devoted to their wives, with just two per cent looking to cheat, although they were still twice as likely to do the dirty as their UK counterparts.

The most faithful of the world’s married men reside in countries including the Republic of Ireland, Cyprus, Greece and Scandinavia with all of these areas polling less than one per cent.

“The study is an eye opener and may be indicative of changing attitudes towards marriage across the world,” said CupidBay’s relationship guru, Francis Deacon.

Robert Jaques, vnunet.com

How to avoid loosers on online dating websites

Posted by on March 1, 2005 No comments

Evan Katz, American online dating expertMany people tell me that their biggest complaint about online dating is the quality of the people who are contacting them. Requests routinely come in from potential clients and former clients – “Can you write me a profile that stops these losers from writing to me?” And we laugh about the lack of quality in the dating pool and I finally tell them my disappointing answer to their very serious question: Absolutely not.

Maybe if I were a twenty-seven-year-old woman with an in-box filled with lewd come-ons, I’d have a different point of view about receiving too much mail. But I’ve had a few admirers over the years, and it has not once occurred to me to get upset when a woman showed her interest – no matter how unattractive, inarticulate or far away she might be. There are far more important things to focus on – namely, trying to ensure that the right people contact you as well.

Online dating is part art and part science. You try things one way, they don’t work, you try things another way. For example, if your sexy photos are attracting the wrong men, I’d sooner take down the pictures than blame the men. Since you can’t police what anybody else does, it’s wasted energy, all this worrying about the emails you receive from ineligibles. So he ignored your age requirement. So she doesn’t pass your attraction test. So he’s in a neighboring state and spelled “a lot” as one word. Big deal! Delete! Move on!

The only thing you need to concern yourself with is putting out the best possible profile – the best username, the best headline, the best photos, the best essays. If you do that, you can rest easy. Not only are you more likely to attract the right person, you probably won’t be worrying so much about all of the wrong ones…

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Online dating is not just about photos and essays. From expanding your search, to avoiding liars, to learning to be patient, the littlest things make a big difference. This eBook contains a series of articles that will make you think, make you smile, but most of all, make you into a more effective dater. Download his free ebook here…